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What's My Love Style?

Who are you when you're in a relationship? Are you a passionate firework who goes all in, a steady tree who loves with quiet consistency, or a free-spirited wind who needs room to breathe? Find out your true love style through 12 real-life dating scenarios. Discover your hidden relationship DNA right now!

12 questions~1 min
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1 min
Avg. Duration
6
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This is a psychology-based quiz that analyzes your true love style through choices in 12 everyday relationship scenarios. Drawing on John Lee's Love Styles Theory, it categorizes your romantic tendencies into 6 patterns: Passionate, Steady, Independent, and more. Each question is based on real dating situations like planning a date, handling conflict, and expressing affection. It takes about 3–5 minutes to complete, and your results include your relationship strengths, things to watch out for, and your most compatible type.
You'll get one of 6 love types: the Dazzling Firework, the Steady Tree, the Smart Strategist, the Free Wind, the Devoted Spring, or the Fun Amusement Park. These are modern reinterpretations of John Lee's original concepts — Eros (passionate love), Storge (friendship-based love), Pragma (practical love), and more. Each type comes with a detailed breakdown of your relationship strengths and weaknesses, tailored love advice, and your best and worst compatibility matches.
This test is great for anyone who keeps clashing with their partner, anyone who isn't sure what they actually want in a relationship, and anyone who wants a fun activity to do with a friend or significant other. It's also helpful if you're curious about someone's love style or want to build healthier relationships through self-awareness. Couples who take it together often find it a great way to understand each other's differences — and the compatibility results can spark some really meaningful conversations.
This test is based on the Colours of Love theory proposed by Canadian sociologist John Alan Lee in 1973. His theory classifies love into 6 types: Eros (passion), Ludus (play), Storge (friendship), Pragma (practicality), Mania (obsession), and Agape (devotion). This test adapts those concepts for modern dating scenarios, helping you discover your romantic tendencies naturally through everyday situations.
The test has 12 questions and typically takes 3–5 minutes. Each question gives you 4 choices, covering various real-life scenarios like date planning, conflict resolution, and emotional expression. There are no right or wrong answers, so go with your gut — that'll give you the most accurate result. You can take it comfortably on mobile, and if you leave mid-test, you can always start over from the beginning.
Absolutely! From the results screen, you can easily share via KakaoTalk, X (Twitter), or by copying the link. Comparing results with a friend or partner is way more fun, and you can even check your compatibility — it's a great conversation starter. Couples who take it together find it super helpful for understanding each other's different relationship styles. With 6 types and info on which pairings work great and which to be careful about, it opens the door to some real heart-to-heart talks.
There are 12 questions, each with 4 answer choices. The first 3 are light warm-up questions, the middle section dives into deeper dating scenarios like conflict, jealousy, and commitment, and the final 3 wrap up with questions about your values and future vision. This gradual structure naturally encourages honest answers and leads to more accurate results. Every choice is scored across the 6 love types (Firework, Tree, Strategist, Wind, Spring, Amusement Park), and the type with the highest total score becomes your final result.
12 questions · ~1 minWhat's My Love Style?